Ma Bella Vita: What I know for Sure Sundays: Emotional Independence

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Sunday, April 12, 2015

What I know for Sure Sundays: Emotional Independence

Hello my loves,

It is one of the most beautiful days of 2015 today in NYC. Hope that wherever you are the day is just as beautiful and if not, that you are making the best of it regardless.

Today's WIKFSS post will be short, sweet, and straight to the point. One of the people I follow on instagram, posted this question the other day:

"Who are you waiting for to be happy?"

Having Emotional Independence should be one of the most indispensable, sought after, valuable traits for anyone in this world. Having loved ones around us- an spouse, parents, siblings, quality friends, and/or people we love in general is amazing. We all should have people we love around us.

However, there is a huge difference between letting someone have so much power over us that our happiness or lack thereof depends on them V. having someone that complements our naturally happy state and just makes our life that much more amazing.

Life experiences have taught me that we should all focus on being happy within ourselves, loving our solitude, having a blast on our own.

Learn to be happy on your own and only allow people in your life that make your already wonderful life even more wonderful.

With that said, this is what I know for sure:

NEVER allow your happiness to depend on a person, or a thing, or anything else that's not already within YOU.

In this life, we should spend time with people that love us (and show it), that make us more joyful, that empower, motivate and excite us. People that make our stand-alone amazing life even more amazing. Everyone else should be love from a distance. 

We should all discover the power of Emotional Independence. 

And that's all my loves. Hope you all have an amazing Sunday and an even more amazing week.


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